Introverted executives are stepping into the limelight

Introverted executives are stepping into the limelight – even though many dislike being the center of attention.

Larry Page, a co-founder of Google Inc., is an introvert who keeps a low public profile. He reclaimed his role as chief executive of the Internet search giant on April 4, forcing himself into the public eye.

Meanwhile, in a Harvard Business Review blog posted earlier this month, Campbell Soup Co. CEO Douglas Conant wrote that he’s an introvert who sometimes feels drained appearing “in front of large groups of people I don’t know.”

Messrs. Page and Conant represent the latest examples of how introverted leaders can flourish despite strong cultural bias against them. About 65% of 1,542 senior managers see introversion as an impediment to reaching higher management levels, concluded a 2006 survey by TheLadders.com, a jobs website.

Introverts typically act reserved, think before they speak and are most energized spending time alone. A flurry of books, blogs, coaches and research is helping transform those supposed career deficits into assets.

But many introverts make good executives even though “extroverts get all the attention,” Mr. Conant noted in an interview. Google declined to make Mr. Page available for comment.

Indeed, “introverts can be better bosses,” especially in a dynamic and unpredictable environment, reports Adam M. Grant, an associate professor at University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School who studies this topic. Amid the uncertainty created by the increased pace of innovation and globalization, he adds, it’s probably better “to be an introverted leader now than at any previous time on record.”

Ambitious introverts tend to excel at one-on-one interactions, empathy and deliberate decision making, experts suggest. They also tend to be good listeners.

Mr. Page, for instance, recently persuaded top executives to join him in sitting and working together each day in a public area of Google’s headquarters in Mountain View, Calif. The idea is that employees can approach them directly, people familiar with the matter have said.

Ian Cook, the chief of Colgate-Palmolive Co., characterizes himself as introverted. He believes his strong listening skills played a role in his steady advancement since he joined the consumer-goods manufacturer in 1976 as an assistant product manager. “I listen intently,” he says. “I am extremely attentive to language and body cues.”

Still, when the British executive landed his first senior management spot more than a decade ago, he remembers being uncomfortable addressing large groups of staffers.

“He was humorous but a little stiff in the process,” concurs Reuben Mark, then Colgate’s CEO. “He wasn’t engaging various parts of the audience with his eyes,” Mr. Mark continues. “He tended to look down at the podium.”

Mr. Cook says coaching from colleagues and advisers improved his presentation delivery. “Unshackling from the podium was a defining moment,” he concedes. “I had to learn.”

Campbell’s Mr. Conant still feels anxious about giving speeches before strangers even though he has run the big packaged-food maker since 2001. He says he eases his jitters a bit by visiting the venue ahead of time, figuring out where he’ll stand and bringing along a knowledgeable buddy who’s familiar with the speaking venue.

That’s what Mr. Conant did the day before he delivered a keynote address at a women’s leadership conference on April 12. The tactic “makes me a little more effective,” he explains.

Other introverted leaders navigate awkward situations by enlisting assistance from extroverted associates.

Consider Tim Miller, chief executive of Rally Software Development Corp. He unsuccessfully pitched an investor group about pouring $10 million into the young software concern three years ago.

“‘All steak, no sizzle,’” Mr. Miller recalls the lead investor telling him following his flawed presentation. “I didn’t create the excitement that they were used to seeing from an extroverted, more flamboyant CEO,” he says.

At Mr. Miller’s request, the investor group agreed to hear a revised pitch a week later. He brought along Rally’s extroverted founder as well as the company’s highest sales official. He wanted his audience “to see that the whole team wasn’t introverts.” After the second meeting, Rally got the $10 million.

Rebecca Chopp, a self-described introvert, tried a similar approach when she became president of Colgate University in 2002. At first, she says she found it hard to make cold calls requesting donations. So, she promoted the head of fundraising to be her special assistant. “He was the most extroverted person I ever had met,” she says.

The fundraiser coached the novice president, arranged introductions with potential donors and accompanied her on donor visits for several years. “He loved being the connector,” Ms. Chopp adds. She left Colgate to command Swarthmore College in 2009.

Extensive preparation also enables introverted executives to conduct fruitful sessions with groups of coworkers. Introverts tend to do better when they “plan where to sit and stand,” then make well-rehearsed comments in a meeting’s first five minutes, says Atlanta leadership coach Jennifer B. Kahnweiler in her book, The Introverted Leader.

While president of Nabisco Holding Corp.’s food unit, his prior employer, Mr. Conant says he realized staffers considered him aloof because he was too shy to say much during meetings. “People were drawing [inaccurate] conclusions about my behavior,” he recalls.

Things improved once Mr. Conant began to alert his colleagues that introverts like him often need time to process information. “The more transparent I became, the more engaged people became.”

Some introverted executives thrive at work as long as they regularly recharge their drained emotional batteries through solitary pursuits, such as a long jog. For Rally’s Mr. Miller, the remedy is golf. “I actually play alone more than I care to admit,” he says.

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Joke for Rosh Hashana

Meeting Mom

This guy tells his mother that he’s finally going to get married. His mother is thrilled!

She says, “Am I gonna meet her?”

He says, “Well, Ma, I’d like to play a little game with you. You have such a good sense of what’s going on. I’d like to bring in three women and have you guess which one’s gonna be my wife.”

His mother agrees.

The next day, he brings in three beautiful ladies and he sits down on the couch next to his mom. His mom talks to them for two minutes and says, “The redhead in the middle.”

He says, “Ma, that’s amazing! How’d you do that so quickly?”

She says, “‘Cause I don’t like her.”

Harold Zapolsky

Harold (Harry) Zapolsky spent most of his career as a professor of physics at Rutgers University, where he served two terms as department chair and is now professor emeritus. He also served in Washington, D.C., for several years as program director for theoretical physics at the National Science Foundation.

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Thoughts are Warm

by Elie Wiesel  “…Granted, our task is to inform. But information must be transformed into knowledge, knowledge into sensitivity and sensitivity into commitment.

 How can we therefore speak, unless we believe that our words have meaning, that our words will help others to prevent my past from becoming another person’s — another peoples’ — future. Yes, our stories are essential — essential to memory. I believe that the witnesses, especially the survivors, have the most important role. They can simply say, in the words of the prophet, “I was there.”

What is a witness if not someone who has a tale to tell and lives only with one haunting desire: to tell it. Without memory, there is no culture. Without memory, there would be no civilization, no society, no future.

After all, God is God because he remembers. “

Though not directly related to this passage, I feel like I’ve been everywhere and nowhere at the same time the past year and a half.  I’m meeting new people and developing new connections, yet feel more alone.  So how do my feelings of isolation relate to Elie Wisel?  I miss sharing my daily experiences with people.  Those conversations where you can talk to people about what you learned and vice versa and all the while increasing your learning through the discussion are one of the greatest things in the world.  Or even those conversations where nothing might be learned, but it made the bond between the two people stronger.  “…information must be transformed into knowledge, knowledge into sensitivity and sensitivity into commitment.”  The new information that I have come across is leading to knowledge, but it’s not being converted into any discernable commitment.  I don’t trust that what I have to say has meaning anymore.  My experiences are being wasted on me.

Maybe my idea that freeing oneself from others would make life less stressful.  Freeing oneself from others is a misleading statement.  It means that others were a burden in the first place and that I was detained by force to be connected with them.  That wasn’t/isn’t the case at all.  Instead of freeing myself from others, I ought to be actively engaged with others.  I think having real conversations/experiences, where more than one party actively participates, is something I am missing.  I can go through the motions and have fun with people, but not be actively engaged.  I should really be more proactive and help build the conversation/experience that I am seeking.  How can I remember the conversation or experience if I am not committed to the conversation or event?  When I get old and my brain processes memories differently, I’m not going to remember the details of the event or conversation, but I will remember how I felt and what it meant to me.  I worry that I won’t remember this point of my life.
 

Jovial

In Roman astrology, planets were named after gods, and people were thought to share the personality traits of the god whose planet was rising when they were born. Jupiter, also called Jove, was the chief Roman god and was considered a majestic, authoritative type who was the source of joy and happiness. The Late Latin adjective “jovialis” meant “of or relating to Jove.” In Middle French this had become “jovial.” English speakers picked up “jovial” in the late 16th century and began applying it to folks who shared the majestic or good-natured character of Jupiter (regardless of their birth date).

Gross Vs. Net

“If you go fishing and throw a net into the sea, everything you catch in the net is yours to keep.  That’s the ‘net’ profit.  Everything else is the gross.”